A grown woman is not impressed with being desired by others – she expects it, based on her respect and love for herself. She knows she has a lot to offer and therefore, sets a high standard for those who would prove worthy of her time and company, not to mention access to her heart, body, money and home. A grown woman does not need the attention of others to feel desirable or worthy of love. And she knows the difference between being desired and wanted for what she looks like, what she has or what she can do, and being loved And valued for who she is.