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The Trials, Tribulations and Sparks of a Petite Bronzed British Pakistani Muslim Girl..


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Walking away…

At some point you will realise that you have done too much for someone or something, that the only next possible step to do is to STOP.

Leave them alone.

Walk away.

It’s not like your giving up, and it’s not like you shouldn’t try.

It’s just that you have to draw a line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours would eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.


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Sometimes the person that excites you most isn’t necessarily going to make the best husband or wife. It takes a lot to see past the glamour and glitter when you’re looking to get married and look for someone who’s going to be a loving companion that will stand by your side no matter what, and better you while also seeking to be bettered by you.


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Soooo I have made the transfer from iphone to Samsung..

So I have made the transfer from iPhone to Samsung and its a mixed bag at the moment.. After day one of getting over the fact I may have made the wrong choice I feel much better.. I used the whole week to debate whether I was up for the move. I was in the middle of a dilemma do I go for the iPhone 6 or Alpha. The price alone was a huge factor, as a married woman I cant afford to shell out billion pounds on a new phone. So I am enlightening everyone who makes that transfer from ios to Android. This will range from the look and feel to customizing your background or apps. The biggest YES was adding notifications to the lock screen, currently you cant see who has messaged you.. it comes up with a big fat ‘Messages’.. its like I want to get excited my husband has messaged me.. its good for those secret secrets.. for me its a nuisance.

Tomorrow I shall post on the look and feel and give each a rating.

Keep calm and trying again…


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Happy new year…

It’s a new year, many will write down resolutions and many will fail on day two.. me too!

So I thought what can I do this year.. no ideas so far..

“All great beginnings start in the dark, when the moon greets you to a new day at midnight.”


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A grown woman is not impressed with being desired by others – she expects it, based on her respect and love for herself. She knows she has a lot to offer and therefore, sets a high standard for those who would prove worthy of her time and company, not to mention access to her heart, body, money and home. A grown woman does not need the attention of others to feel desirable or worthy of love. And she knows the difference between being desired and wanted for what she looks like, what she has or what she can do, and being loved And valued for who she is.


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When you have something good… When you have something good, you don’t play with it!

You don’t take chances with it!

You don’t take risks with it! When you got something good, you get every single thing you can get out of it!

Because guess what?

When you take care of something good, that something good takes care of you.