Sometimes the person that excites you most isn’t necessarily going to make the best husband or wife. It takes a lot to see past the glamour and glitter when you’re looking to get married and look for someone who’s going to be a loving companion that will stand by your side no matter what, and better you while also seeking to be bettered by you.

The day I met you…

Today is a very special day for me, it’s the day I found the one who blew sparkles in my life.

I was always independent, I loved everything about myself and most of all I was ultimately grateful for my blessings from the Lord.

However when I met you I never realised that you would give me such happiness, such joy and love.

I love you with every part of my soul, because you know me inside out and still look at me with love.

“Time is not a measure of success, you could have known someone for years and not feel anything for them.

You could have known someone for a short period of time and feel an instant bond, unbreakable.”

The bond I felt with you no words can describe the emotion it brings in my heart.

You are my best friend,  and the key to the lock in my heart.

“One day someone will hug you so tight, that all your pieces will fit together perfectly.”

Husband & Wife

A man and his fiancée were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black suit. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: “I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage.” She offered.

“Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together.”

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

“I’ll start,” offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

“What’s wrong?” she asked. “Nothing” the husband replied, “keep reading your list.”

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

“Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists.” She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.”

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

~This is such a sad story.. brought a tear to my eyes..

Sorry to everyone

Hi All,

Sorry I have been away for a month not posting any messages, shall be up and running again by October but will be doing weekly posts

Got married last month so been busy settling in.. has given me an idea about writing articles about marriage viewing from the South Asian perspective.. the things they don’t tell you..how to act.. etc

xxx

It takes a strong person to say sorry,

and an even stronger person to forgive.

It matters to you because it matters to me..

That’s why I love you so much darling..

You are my best friend, partner, my love and now will be my husband.

I love you with every bone in my body, with every heartbeat, with every breath.

You are woven into my life like a tapestry, all strong and beautiful.

Thank you so much for everything.

When I’m negative you are positive, your my yang to my yin..

Not only do we complement each other but together we enhance each other bringing out the best in each other..

May we always be this way..

Truly we are blessed..

Allhumdulliah,

 To all those who think there isn’t someone out there for you, keep going! She/ He will come in to your life when the time is right.. when you are ready to accept their love.. then youll be glad why it never worked out with anyone else..

 Have faith..

Please pray for us, that we are always shaded under Gods light together till the end and beyond..

All too often people concentrate on finding the right spouse, little realizing that half of any marriage is being the right spouse.

“A righteous wife to help you with your worldly and religious affairs is the best treasure anyone could have.”

(Bukhari)

“When a husband and wife look at each other with Love, Allah looks at both with Mercy”

[Bukhari 6:19 & Tirmidhi 14:79]